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It started with a plea/request: BFF HARRY SUPERMAN (or HARRY S. for short)...I*ve been good to you...I beg of you to stop courting me or trying to win me...You already have a replacement Gf (the one I saw last September 26th) [Update: She*s not a replacement Gf, she*s one of three MAIN current girlfriends (there are also "minor steady girlfriends")]...NOW, I*M NOT JUDGING HARRY ON HIS PREFERENCES but I can say they*re a bit unique...maybe surprising as well...I*m just asking him to stop trying to get me back.
I don*t see it as evil if a man wants several women all at the same time...I support polygamy AND womanising...The main girls plus the extras...We tried to solve it in MANY ways but we couldn*t...just because of some definitions and image perception issues.
Yet since I want to live a quiet life, I think it*s best to solve this problem through a suggestion I*ve broached in Umbrella Girl...I gave it the title "Consider Me..."...there I address my Honey, I mean my BFF (well, I REALLY still love him but it*s time to say goodbye) (for now!...I*ll just be around the corner!)...Everyone will see the how and the why and the wherefore there...
(CONTINUED FROM THE Oct. 8th post WHY IT*S FINAL (Part I)
WHY IT*S FINAL (PART 2):
IT* NOT JUST HARRY...He just happened to be the one around when I started feeling I*m "Never gonna fall in love again", like the Eric Carmen song that explains that it*s just such a hassle. IT CAN APPLY TO ANY MAN, like I don*t want to be involved with anyone at all! That*s what I*m feeling right now, and it feels like a forever-thing, a forever-preference.
I also learned that love is not enough ensure the success of a love relationship. Of course I remember that Firefall song written by Roberts called "Goodbye, I Love You" where my favourite line is, "But love is not enough to make you mine..." How true. The other lyrics in that song do not apply to my particular situation...although there may be a line or five (?!) {!!} there that could fit...like..."Maybe I love you more than you know - Maybe you*ll know someday...Maybe you think it*s easy for me, easy to say goodbye...Maybe it hurts me more than you see - All I can do is cry..."
Anyway...back to the topic of being a loner: Somehow, the concept of being "Forever alone" (referring to a lack of a sweetheart) is not threatening to me...it*s a great prospect (we have other loved ones, like friends, relatives...and we have work/being busy)!
One of the main points I want to highlight in this post though is the fact that it*s quite common to have a lot of friends...and to me, Harry is a good friend...but when some of us want to be alone, people should respect that.
And no, not all of the couples* problems "can be solved by love"...that is such utter nonsense! When someone doesn*t want to be with Someone Special nor have a Significant Other and just wants to be left alone, people should NOT say that "she just needs a little prodding and a little more sweetness and some roses and all that"...because such persons have already said they DON*T WANT a Special Someone.
If someone doesn*t want to shag anyone then you must leave that person alone...and quit implying that the person would be lonely without a shag partner.
A Love Phobia?? Yeah, we could call it that...and the best part is I\'m afriad of something that isn*t necessary for me to be whole or happy. Happiness is another complex topic, but it may or may not have any connection to being alone.
[An aside here: Apparently, FOR MEN, that is NOT the case. God said, "It is not good for a man to be alone." He never said that of the woman. That mentioned, we can conclude that a man can be his best self if he has an assistant...preferrably a woman, who gives him all he needs. But you see, I am NOT a man, so none of these manly things apply to me.]
Now in my case, I am alone AND happy. (No partner, no hassle!) I may be alone, but I*m NEVER lonely. My passions, interests and mission keep my life vibrant. |
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