| [Category - Slices of Life - Poetry][The needs of a Woman...and the Stages of a long-term relationship/marriage][Facts about Women and Love...and sharing with you all a part of my life]
DISCUSSION SPURRED ON BY POETRY (I am a very simple girl, very simple)
FACTS ABOUT WOMEN AND LOVE...AND SEX Part 1
I AM A VERY SIMPLE GIRL, VERY SIMPLE
I am a very simple girl, very simple.
I only know how to love, how to care.
I only have kindness and joy to share.
I am a simple star without a twinkle.
I am a very simple girl, very simple.
I am not a famous dancer or singer.
I can feel your dancing heart with my finger.
My heart is longing for love, very simple.
I am a very simple girl, very simple.
My purpose of life is to get joy and happiness
By touching your heart with loving tenderness
I am a simple girl, I am the life, very simple.
-by Dr. Debasish Mridha
Comments: I have indeed said that I am a very simple girl...so this poem caught my attention.
My nature, especially when people consider it to be a loving one, has been interpreted by many as ONE NEEDING LOVE...
"She NEEDS love, that is why she entices with her sweet nothings..."
A gentle correction of facts is in order:
I had a very hidden journal
in places no one will find
or so I thought
Hidden in the deepest recesses
of a labyrinth
I poured my heart and deepest feelings
in songs of love
For one young man
for him alone
did my passions collide
with wild abandon
He would see those words
And never, ever know
they were for him!
So between that intention AND how the world found my hidden journal and subsequently made assumptions as to how one woman became the doom of men...your guess is as good as mine!
In other words, there was no need to be loved by men there...because I never thought this guy would even think those words were for him! It was not intended to be understood by him as for him, let alone for any other man! Clue: Someone hastened to spill the beans...and that is how entrusted secrets become the domain of all!
As I have always told friends, even if no one believes me:
There is no desperation in me
because the female in me, as a mother, is a fulfilled woman!
Have you ever noticed that usually
a man gets married and all is fine
the first few years (or months)...
And then suddenly a baby is born
and there goes the romance between man and wife
slowly floating away?
Women need not apologize that a baby, a child
is truly the fulfillment of a woman*s very being.
If she be with a husband,
all she needs to do is see to it that
he is never neglected
despite the new womanly thrill
of having a baby for the first time!
Nay, more than that
she should reassure him with her actions
that he is still Number One in her life!
Note that men usually PROJECT their own needs
when they JUDGE a woman as needing love.
Usually, they need THE LOVE of THAT woman
but they do not know how else to say it
or cry it out.
Remember that in the Bible, God said,
when he created Adam,
"It is NOT GOOD that man should be alone."
God NEVER SAID. "Like wise, it is not good for a woman
to be alone." He had other plans as to what would fulfill a woman.
People couple up because
men need women and women need babies.
Will women ever need men?
All I can say is,
...it is not even biblical, this idea of woman*s need of man!
So if any man see an Old Maid
he should be very wise.
A man should be aware that this Old maid
could very well adopt a child or even a pet cat
and she would be fine.
*(to be continued in Part 2)(uploaded in two parts because again, it would not go in as one whole thing) |
