| Neither he nor I are desperate for a show of clout.
HIM: I would NEVER, EVER THINK he was desperate for female company OR sex. Almost all the young, fresh and desirable women of this world desire him, wanting to give themselves to him if only he*d let them. His situation reminds me of Mick Jagger being desired by groupies, and back in those days moralists like myself were too young to speak out and make the case for "No sex before marriage"...Mick, whether you think he*s lucky or unlucky, has had sex with thousands of groupies (fans) after concerts that he can*t really recall how many...
Between drunkenness and getting high after concerts at after-parties, he could estimate that maybe he had sex with three thousand five hundred to four thousand lovely young girls while touring around the world. (And none of it meant a thing to him, by the way. But I guess he enjoyed stuff like that while it was happening. Kicks, I mean...) (He got married, was it four times {??}, to Bianca, and then Jerry Hall and later to two others). Personally I think people expect rockstars, being as sexy as they are, to just go ahead with the pattern, with no rhyme or reason. And yet, the goodies are there. "You*re a rockstar, you typically get all that sex." Personally (again) I think Mick Jagger was so darn lucky he didn*t get STD...I guess he knew how to choose and all that...
Now he, the green-eyed guy that I had a breakup with, is in the situation of a rockstar. All of the above is open to him if he so desires. There is never a lack of women who will give themselves to him, if only they had the chance.
[AN ASIDE COMMENT: For the record though, let me just include that he said in a telephone interview with a famous DJ that he had "no time" for things like "playing around" (with women, he meant).]
(Still, that does not diminish the fact that the world*s young women and a large number of older ones too have declared their availability to him...he will NEVER be desperate for female company, that*s for sure.)
ME: Neither am I desperate for men to love me. Though similar through a lack of desperation, my case is somewhat dissimilar to his. It*s a world of "No sex before marriage", of celibacy, of chastity, of sacrifice in the name of some future true love. I*m priming myself to give the best I can give if I eventually marry, and not squander my affections and tenderness (and body) on just any man out there. It will reduce the anxiety and speculation of the man I will eventually be with, if I have kept my body to myself and not be touched by a dozen men or more.
And since I have a philosophy about the timing of sex (after marriage!) I don*t get invitations to "date" - I get proposals for marriage because the guys know I just ain*t gonna give it up and that*s that. Like I*ve said before, if I kept every real ring presented to me in a proposal for marriage (yes the majority knelt down with tears in their eyes, including celebrities), the rings would fill two huge document boxes, and those are just from the suitors I know of, who have ACTUALLY proposed to me. So just like him, I*m not desperate for male attention nor the intentions of men to take care of me. (I*ll take care of whomever it is who really becomes my partner, by the way. Love is a give and take thing afterall.)
Is all this do-able? What are the specific examples?
Well, he can ask any beautiful girl (any beautiful girl...if one is too busy, then there are others equally or even more beautiful who would gladly take him up on his offer) to go out with him for coffee and whatever else (shopping??) (whatever, THE WORKS, okay?) and he has that manliness (and sexiness) to accomplish that. A handsome and sexy guy asking beautiful women out...what could be simpler?
On the other hand, the guys don*t seem to get tired of reminding me that I matter to them like life itself and they want to grow old with me. They back these sorts of romantic phrases by actual marriage proposals, some even seen by their friends. Although I haven*t made my mind up yet...
We each have our different worlds which we can turn to for strength, you know...but maybe we*re really feeling desperate for the opposite sex and we just don*t know it yet (???)...
I don*t know...I keep changing my mind on this one.
M-Maybe we*re desperate for...each other???
No....
No, no, no....I won*t go there...."I won*t go there yet"....OR...."I won*t go there ever"...yet...or...ever, whichever the case may be.
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