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Journal for sophial
Journal for sophial
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Many people wonder [URL=https://realrelationbeauty.com/how-talking-dirty-can-improve-your-sex-life-and-relationship/]what makes a happy marriage work?[/URL] The most important ingredient is mutual love and respect. Without these there will be no happiness in marriage. For instance one day you might ask your spouse why he or she didn\'t pick up the phone when you called. You will receive a variety of answers such as he or she didn\'t have enough time, he or she didn\'t want to disturb you, he or she didn\'t want to sound disrespectful, or he or she didn\'t want to hang up the phone.
Each one of these responses is a form of "I don\'t want to bother you." In other words the person saying this has put a barrier between you and your spouse. They don\'t want to spend any time with you, they want to sit in their cozy little corner and read a book. Your spouse has placed a barrier between you, blocking off time spent together. This can cause all kinds of problems in a marriage such as lack of closeness, communication, closeness, affection, sex and even infidelity.
When learning what makes a happy marriage work, it is important to identify the reason for the disconnect. Is it work related? If so then it is important to determine how that conflict and decision affecting your relationship can be resolved. Are you two working through the problem at home, are you apart but communicating frequently, or do you keep the issues at arm\'s length? Once you have identified the source of the problem then you can begin working to repair the damage.
If you find that your spouse has cut you out of things he or she does because you are less than happy about something then be prepared to work hard to change that. Do not assume that it is a work issue. Many times one spouse becomes more self-centered than the other due to the stress of work and school. The dynamic has to be shifted if you expect things to work out. You will need to have an honest and open dialogue about these issues so they do not get blown out of proportion.
What makes a happy marriage work? Children can play a large role in how the marriage works out. It is very easy during the early years of a relationship to fall into daily patterns. If you have children then you should schedule a time for bonding and consistent activities that lead to self-understanding and marital happiness.
The most important thing to remember is that a marriage is supposed to work. If you and your spouse are having difficulties then it is important to resolve the issues that are leading to these difficulties. If you do not do this then you may find that your marriage eventually fades away and you become separate people who are unhappy with their lives. It is important to have a commitment to each other and to working together to resolve marriage issues. Marriage is hard work, but the rewards are great. Work through your marriage issues and your marriage will last!
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