Hi Aimee my name is Craig James Thomson and I am just about to finish my book ...called. 3 Witnesses of Heaven . Actually my 2nd one . The first is ‘ Thankyou Father. ‘ anyway in it you could say the abuse of woman is addressed . I am not a marriage counsel or but a born again christian. I have been since 1984. I am truly sorry that it happened to you. But Jesus loves you, dying on a cross for you AND to heal you spiritually and mentally . Give him a chance Duffy , here are a few scriptures to help you ....psalm 139 : 13. - 16 , John 3 : 1. - 8 , John. 16 : 5. - 11 , and. Philippians. 4: 4 - 7. Please note years ago I did basic training at Bleua Ffestinog and I was a sinner. Romans 3 : 23 . If I can help you my number is +15194444419 or [email protected]