| [As usual, if you would like to know the viewer count on this essay, just go to the original post on February 14 ("...I love you!"). The essay has been transferred here because something was added there..the February 14th story about The Surprise from My Love.]
THE VALENTINE CARD IS RE-POSTED HERE BECAUSE IT IS THE "TOPIC OF DISCUSSION"
[Typing convention: Asterisks replace the apostrophe because apostrophes do not work in this journal]
...IMPORTANT: People...LOL... NOT SEX!!...I merely told him I wouldn*t put a greeting here on February 14, and he said he wanted one from me! It wasn*t a request for the sex act with me giving in, my goodness!!!
OKAY...the varied reactions of people lengthened the once-short note below (original one in green)!
[My Questions to you all:
1. Can*t we send sexy-looking cards to our Love??
2. Doesn*t romance(/love) also mean sexuality (although in my case, old-fashioned sexuality)?]
Below you will see the Original Note to Those Who Read This Post...Some thought, because I guess they didn*t read it well, (and just skimmed over it) (and maybe took one look at the sexy pose in the card and made the wrong conclusion) that I surrendered "that way" (sexually) and that is WRONG~ LoL...It was just about a NOTE here on Valentine*s Day! Here it is again (read it well this time!):
To those who come across this entry...
Well, at first I told him and everyone that I would NOT put a Valentine*s Day/Hearts Day entry in this journal...because it might seem tacky, and not really welcomed by him.
His reaction was that he wouldn*t like it if I didn*t have a special greeting just for him (in this journal).
So my Honey wins, and I surrender with love!
♥ ♥ ♥ IN ANSWER TO THE REACTION OF SOME:
SOME PEOPLE ARE ALSO ASKING WHAT I WOULD THINK IF MY BOYFRIEND FANTASIZED ABOUT ME SEXUALLY...so you think I would get mad at him, right?
My answer is: Dreaming and fantasizing about your romantic partner or sweetheart is nice and good.
You only have to honor each other*s preferences regarding the timing of the sex act (in my case, it*s the old-fashioned timing) so you do not unnecessarily seduce your partner or trick him or her...Like I said, if I ever decide to give in, the whole world will know about it! LOL I*m not kidding! So if you don*t hear any news about it, then we*re still holding on to the ideal (according to my preference).
It is my understanding, and his too, that a man will never force or trick or seduce a woman he loves into having sex with him if she makes it clear that she has an old-fashioned preference regarding these things. A boyfriend truly in love with his girl is after all not a rapist, not a rogue, etc.
OF COURSE these things are the stuff of women*s fantasies in ROMANTIC NOVELS featuring ultra-handsome and muscular rogues (not your everyday rapist, okay)
[TAKE NOTE: A woman does NOT fantasize about being raped by an ugly guy or a guy she doesn*t care for, but fantasizes about being RAVISHED by her handsome boyfriend...I hope the difference is duly noted!]...And there will be room for all that in the life of an old-fashioned woman, did you know...If she ever marries, then she and her husband can role-play that and other (ENDLESS) possibilities, right? |
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